I Wonder


I’ve wondered lately if I’m a good person. I’ll say it to myself. I’ll let it marinate.

Sometimes I contemplate it so hard, that I lose track of time.

Hours go by for me without one word uttered. It blurs me in and out.

I never discover the answer. My mind never commits one way or another.

Today, I started feeling the familiar twinge of a migraine.

Light sensitivity, nausea, searing pain, intense fatigue.

It’s one of the many symptoms of this mental illness circling inside me.

It is the curse of thought, self-doubt, and a deep unrest within me.

Am I a saint or a devil? An angel or a demon? Good or evil?

The middle ground has disintegrated around me.

I can only replenish the sadness.

I can’t eradicate it.

I can only chip away at how much I care.


Little Victories Vol. 5



It’s been a while since I’ve written in this area, and it feels like the time to contribute again. I hope everyone has been well and thriving this holiday season. A lot of things have been shifting in my life lately, and processing it has been hard, particularly in the two weeks. I’d forgotten to take some time out of the chaos to remind myself that there are things worth celebrating. So, I’ll get to it!

Kindness-As I’ve alluded, things have been a mess for me lately. After a rough few weeks, flashes of old, scarring situations have surfaced. I seized the opportunity to write them down for this blog, to hopefully start a conversation with people who may be feeling similarly or raise awareness that mental disorders are sneaky bastards. I’ve written two entries so far, resulting in some great email conversations with individuals. I urge you to read them and join the conversation. Mental health continues to be considered an unsavory topic, and often people are uncomfortable with talking about it. I had this instance last weekend after my mom followed me into a room and watched a panic attack ensue. She would not address it. She kept talking to me like the attack wasn’t happening. Blindness to or unwillingness to understand mental illness is a true detriment to the individual healing process and societal empathy.

But there have also been some people who have risen to the occasion, and have helped me through the issues. They have supported the weight of it, propped me up when it felt crushing. For them, I am truly grateful.

Sleep-Finals crept up for grad school too quickly. After an incredibly hectic semester, I felt ragged. Finals seemed like an unnecessary hurdle for the end, so I procrastinated my work slightly. This meant I had two weeks where I had extra late nights. However, I achieved a 4.0 semester! My celebration of this will be a weekend of true rest starting tonight. I cannot begin to tell you how excited I am about this. In my true nature, I have pre-scheduled naps tomorrow and Sunday to ensure I complete what I have set out to do. Only one work day stands between me and R&R (I can do this!).

Music-With the emotionally chaotic  few weeks, I’ve turned (even more so) to music to get me through. Like books, music has been a staple in my life since the womb. I grew up playing instruments, stuck with professional lessons on the piano for 14 years, achieved awards in percussion, and started lessons on the violin this year. Music builds me up and allows constructive ways to reflect and relax.

Thanks for reading today. Your support has not gone unnoticed. Happy Friday!

This Broken Brain


A 2004 high school snapshot:

“I’m addicted to hurting myself,” I said with a dry voice. Dry eyes.

“What do you mean?” My friend said.

I lifted my sleeve as high as it would go. They eyed the burns, the jagged cuts.

“Fuck.” they said.

“I don’t know what to think of myself. I think I might be suicidal.”

“The hell you are!” They said.

I saw the anger steaming from the top of their head.

“Fuck you!” They said.

The words worked into my brain.We sat together in their car near my parent’s driveway. It was our space for honesty, a closed off sanctuary.

“I’m telling your parents right now!” They said, jumping out, violating our rule of secrecy.

“Please don’t.” I said. “I can’t handle them knowing.” I pulled on my hair to make my scalp sting.

They walked toward the front door, my mind capturing it all in slow motion.

I leaped out too. I ran. After a mile of a full sprint, I jumped into the woods of familiar trees and familiar scopes.

I hid. My parents were going to disown me. I knew it.

I watched the world fall dark. The woods began to turn on me. I walked away from the road, hearing the wind rattle the dead leaves around me. Hot, stinging tears fell from my face. My eyes worked against my brain, as it tried to squelch the pain.

As anxiety began to surface, I started singing.

“So this is odd. Painful realization that all has gone wrong, and nobody cares at all.”

The dark accepted my words. The cold air whisked them away.

My skull throbbed, echoing the scream rising in my throat.

I wandered, blindly. The trees became ghosts, wailing shadows for monsters ready to pounce. I heard the wind playing its sad melody with a creaking door in the distance.

“Follow me,” it sang. “Find me.”

I walked on. Sharp chest pains begged me to stop.

“So you buried all your lover’s clothes and burned the letters lover wrote, but it doesn’t make it any better. Does it make it any better?” I said

“You’ll never know,” something said.

I kept on. “And the plaster dented from your fist in the hall where you had your first kiss. Reminds you that the memories will fade.”

“You aren’t worth the memories.” I felt claws.

“So this is strange. Our sidestepping has come to be a brilliant dance where nobody leads at all.” I said, softly.

“Yes. You are lost.” A heavy weight landed on my shoulders. I cried out, falling hard.

With a ragged breath I said, “And the picture frames are facing down and the ringing from this empty sound is deafening and keeping you from sleep.”

I stood up.

“Stay lost, empty one.”

I ran away. I didn’t look back to see what had tried to catch me. I pushed my lungs as hard as they could muster as I saw the edge of the woods ahead.

I sprinted out, came to a stop, and doubled over. My mind hit its no return zone. The urge ground myself with pain welled beneath my  skin. A haze fell over my brain.

I grasped for reality as my mind hung on to the song. “And breathing is a foreign task and thinking’s just too much to ask and you’re measuring your minutes by a clock that’s blinking eights.”

I spied the screeching door in the distance. My mind focused, and walked toward it. I closed my eyes for long stretches of time as my legs continued on autopilot.

I reached an obstacle. I touched the wooden fence blocking my way. Numbly, I put a food on the bottom rail in an effort to raise myself over it. I heard an abrupt sound, scarily close to me. I looked up to see a white figure brush past me at full speed. I slipped, knocking my chin on the fence as I fell sideways. I cried out, from pain and fear.

I looked up expecting to see Satan standing above me. Surprised to find nothing, I looked around and my mind came into focus. I heard galloping steps and saw the horse moving alongside the fence.

“Well, this is incredible, starving, insatiable. Yes, this is love for the first time. And you’d like to think that you were invincible.Yeah, well weren’t we all once, before we felt loss for the first time? ” My voice project into the open space.

I noticed the horse’s agitation as I realized that the air felt right for a storm. I backed away from the fence  toward the woods, feeling braver.

“Well, this is the last time,” I said, laying down next to a dense tree. I covered my body with leaves and closed my eyes.

A little while later, I called a friend to help me.

*lyrics by Chris Carrabba


This Broken Brain



Part 1:

One afternoon in March, I called the suicide hotline. I had hit my breaking point. My body was completely numb. I was afraid of myself. I needed to be honest about what I was planning to do. I needed help.

The connection established.

I said, “I’m going to commit suicide.”

The person, said “Don’t do that.” An annoyed tone crept up among their words.

“Do you have someone to talk to?”

“No, that’s why I called you,” I said. “I really need you to help me.”

A burning sensation filled my chest cavity. Admitting that was hard.

The person, increasingly frustrated said,”God says suicide is a sin.”

This was my first time calling this line. I was shocked at what I was hearing. How did any god have any say in what was happening at that moment? How was that supposed to help me after stating I was going to commit suicide?

“I’m not religious.” I stated, blandly.

“Well that’s your problem.” they said, pointedly. “You don’t believe in the Lord, Jesus Christ, your savior. You wouldn’t feel this way if you did.”

“I’m an Atheist.” I said. I had not fully believed that thought until then.

They scoffed.

I hung up.

I focused on how much I couldn’t feel. I couldn’t sense anything except my burning heart.

I picked up something sharp. I made a tiny nick near my ear.


I watched little beads of red surface in my mirror.

I was tired. Exhausted. Unprepared.

My body fell to the floor.

I  woke up after dark.


Little Victories Vol. 4


Things are pretty busy around where I work at the moment. We’ve hit our peak time, and it’s been hard to stay caught up each day. Some things had to be put aside in order for me to survive the past few weeks. I’m hoping things will slow down as we near the holiday season, so I can focus on getting the extra stuff done in the day. I have been running on fumes from the piles of things I had to do outside of work. Last night was the first night in over a month that allowed me to get home before 9 pm. Stress and anxiety caught up with me this week, and I almost broke down. I wanted to give up everything that had been keeping me up so late at night, the papers that required writing and reading, the events that wouldn’t end on time, the duties around the house, all of the obligations that kept me away from my family.

All of this is to say that I didn’t have a lot of time to read and de-compress. Last week, I had kept to a schedule, but as soon as Monday came this week, I was dead on my feet and all of my drive to “be something” left me. I had to push myself into survival mode, to make it to the end of the week. I shut down emotions and shifted my priorities to focus only on tasks. And that is how my schedule has been: wake up, work, event, work, bed—5 am-12 am each day.

Next week begins the last month of this kind of schedule. I will have survived four months of literally running from one meeting to the next, the 3:30 am alarms, the phone reminders that I should have gone to bed before 12 am so I could receive more than two hours of sleep, the anxiety that woke me up even earlier, and the depression that I constantly fought to keep from slipping.

I’m so close, and that’s my victory.

Bibliophile Corner

photo-1421338443272-0dde2463976aHi All! I’m excited to announce that a new series is being launched today. This is a great opportunity for all my bibliophile friends to tell the world what books were their favorite from 2016! Today, Renuka (Past Bedtime Blog), Anna (A literary Potion), and Amber (Mr. Thomas and Me) are sharing!

21396155I’ve read many books this year so far. But I really loved these 2 books – The Forbidden Wish by Jessica Khoury and The Unexpected Everything by Morgan Matson. But I have to say that The Forbidden 17838528Wish was my favorite. When I first read the book I was so engrossed in the book that I couldn’t put it down. The book had me at the first chapter. I mean this book has everything in it – from friendship to love to girl power to MAGIC!! Who doesn’t love magic? I really loved the main characters – Aladdin and Zahra. And this name ‘Zahra’ really caught my attention. I totally fell in love with this name.

Back to the book, while I was reading this book it felt so magical and real at the same time. I actually felt like I was inside the book and watching the whole thing happening right in front of my eyes. The detail of the story is so good and the whole story itself keeps you wrapped around it that you don’t want to put the book down. I already really liked the Disney movie ‘Aladdin’ with the jinn and all but this book is way better.

My favorite quote from this book is:

“You can’t choose what happens to you, but you can choose who you become because of it.” – Aladdin

And if you haven’t read this book you should definitely buy it and read it ASAP.

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The Blue trilogy by Lisa Glass

The Blue trilogy by Lisa Glass is my favourite series of the year so far. It’s such a glorious summery read and I couldn’t put it down, I devoured the whole trilogy in a matter of days. I have been recommending it to everyone I know, even random strangers on the street (okay, maybe not that far). I have even managed to get the first book into my local library because these books are an underappreciated gem in the UKYA world.

Blue, Air and Ride by Lisa Glass

It evokes the whole atmosphere of the seaside town of Newquay, the laid-back beach lifestyle combined with the competitive world of pro-surfing. It reminds me of days and weeks spent at the beach when I was a child and teenager, the same sun-kissed glow of my memories are kept between the pages of these books. The love for the sea and surfing shines on every page and it mimics exactly how much I love the freedom of the wide open ocean. There is such a lot of details about the surfing world that I felt like I should be able to pick up a surfboard and be able to ride the Mavericks along with the best of the big wave surfers. It took me back to my long-established love of surfing, despite not having been within ten feet of a board in my life.

The characters really drove this story and I fell in love with them all over the course of the trilogy. The author has such a wonderful talent with writing, she manages to get inside the head of a teenage girl and made me feel like Iris could have been one of the girls in my year at school. I think in some ways, the main characters, Zeke and Iris, were the living embodiment of what surfer life is like. Zeke had a relaxed, hippy vibe, and Iris was more stressy and competitive. I loved how Iris’ character developed throughout the books and she went from being a judgemental teenager to a mature young adult as she saw what life was really like beyond the confines of Newquay. Zeke was easily my favourite character in the books; sixteen-year-old Anna would have loved to meet a guy like Zeke, and I think not-so-sixteen-year-old Anna still does!

I was absolutely swept away in this series, diving headfirst into the world of sun, sea and surf. It is such a refreshing series to read, the characters are so realistic and though the books may seem like a happy-go-lucky summer read, there is a lot of depth in them that goes way beyond what you see on the surface. The final book in the trilogy ends on such a high, I adored it and I cried for a good fifteen minutes when I realised I’d come to the end of my time in Iris and Zeke’s world.

“He said your eyes looked alarmed by the world, until the moment you were in the ocean. In the ocean you were calm, and he thought that was because in the ocean you felt home.” Air by Lisa Glass.

This quote isn’t the best one I could pick from the whole trilogy, but it is the quote that means the most to me, because in two sentences it has described not only Zeke and Iris, but it has also got to the very heart of me. It is very personal to me.

The books in the trilogy: Blue, Air and Ride. The first book in this series, Blue, is being adapted into a film called Blue Than the Sky, with filming starting next spring in Newquay. It is going to be an amazing movie, and I can’t wait until the story of my two loves, Iris and Zeke, is on the big screen.

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51ldn8htuql-_sx332_bo1204203200_Yellow Crocus
by Laila Ibrahim
I only picked up this book because it was free on KindleUnlimited and it seemed like a good departure from the thrillers I’d been binge reading while on vacation. Oh my goodness, as fate would have it, I feel head over heels in love with the two main characters of Yellow Crocus and couldn’t put it down. In fact, I ended up binge reading it late one night before we flew home. And then I cried myself to sleep over the joy and pain of it.
Yellow Crocus walks in the same veins of The Help and The Secret Life of Bees with the historical fiction dealings of slavery and civil rights… However, it’s different because it moves beyond the slavery and explores what freedom means for both the freed woman and the removed daughter of a plantation owner. It’s hope and hurt, growth and ache, all wrapped up in a single, gorgeously written novel.
Favorite quotes:
“Focus on bearing, and beauty will follow. Your looks will not remain with you for life. But your bearing will go with you to the grave.”
“I can’ say much ’bout marriage. But I know a good man make life more sweet. Someone to hold you and love you, someone to share your dreams with, someone kind and thoughtful. A good man’s a treasure.”

That concludes today’s post! If you’re interested in being part of this series, feel free to comment below or email me at twobookminimum@gmail.com!